Ready To Put Your Breakup Or Divorce Behind You, And Feel Desirable And Confident So that You Can Move On And Find Love Again ?

  • Does it sometimes feel as if the best of your love life may be behind you?

  • Do you have a hard time believing that finding love again is even possible for you?

  • Or that even if you do – that it may be great in the beginning but that it won’t last and will leave you heartbroken again?

  • Are you feeling stuck and finding it hard to move on from your ex and your previous relationship?

  • Are you finding the whole dating landscape tough to navigate and often feel deflated and doubting your ability to attract the right kind of people for you?

I can relate to all of these, I’ve well and truly ‘been there’. 


Let’s be honest: the dating scene is in no way an even playing field. There are plenty of people out there who aren’t ready for a relationship, but they start relationships – often over and over again.

I’ve seen and experienced first hand the hurt and heartbreak that bringing unresolved grief, trauma and emotion into your dating journey and new relationship can cause.

There are no hard and fast rules or formulas to know how long it would take you to recover and feel ready to get back out there again.  What is much more important is how you use this time that you have – I wish I knew what a precious time the period after my divorce actually was. And I wish I did a lot more with it.

One of the biggest pitfalls is dating or getting into a new relationship to soon. You can become a snowball of hurt when you move on too quickly. I’ve also seen how rebound relationships can cause intense hurt because they exacerbate the unresolved pain from a marriage breaking down.

Depending on your circumstances, it may be tempting to just get back out there – but getting into dating and a relationship from a position of fear, loneliness or even just plain old curiosity is not the best starting point for a healthy, happy and mature relationship.

Resolution needs to come before connection.

Instead of thinking about how long you should wait or wondering if and when you’ll ever feel ready to fall in love again, focus on investing in yourself and finding out what you uniquely need to work on.

This is what will make the real difference for you – so that you can date confidently, attract the right kind of person and, most importantly, create your best relationship yet.

I am now well and truly through on the ‘other side’ – I’m happier than I’ve ever been and married to the absolute love of my life.

And I know that finding love again, rebuilding your life and being truly happy is possible for you too.

Hi, I’m Ané, I am a leading Love and Dating Coach and I help strong, successful & soulful women like you find Soulmate Love. I’m going to show you how you can go from feeling stuck and struggling to move on, to confidently attract the right kind of people for you and ultimately find love again.

That’s why I created the ‘Ready for Love Blueprint’ just for you.

Our work together isn’t just about dating – it is about much more than that. Of course I absolutely want you to have the most fun, sexy and fabulous dating life possible – but what I want for you even more than that is for you to confidently attract the right kind of people and ultimately find love again with the right person for you. 

Working with me is for you when:

You’re thinking about getting back into dating or a new relationship but you’re scared of being open and vulnerable again

– and you’re determined to do whatever it takes to not repeat past mistakes, sell yourself short or waste your time on unsuitable men and toxic relationships making you feel less and less like yourself.

You’ve been single for so long that you don’t even know where to start to get back into the dating scene

– and you wonder whether it would actually be worth it. Maybe you just don’t feel you have the confidence to get yourself out there at the moment and you find yourself doubting that your would actually ever meet somebody again.

You’re aware that you’re repeating patterns and habits that are unhelpful and maybe even hurtful to you. Maybe you’re in a pattern of only going on one-off dates or getting into short-term (often toxic) relationships

– only to end up back at square one. Maybe you keep attracting ’emotionally unavailable’ men who are not ready for the kind of relationship you’re looking for and where the only real outcome is a dead-end relationship that leaves you feeling heartbroken, insecure and confused – doubting yourself and your own judgement

You’ve been on date after date and you’re starting to wonder if there are any decent ment out there 

– either online or in ‘reality’ and you have no idea where to meet the right kind of people for you. And sometimes fleeting moments of promise leave you feeling empty and deflated

What you’ll get when you work with me:

  • personalised tools and dating strategies that suits your personality and lifestyle so that you can feel calm, confident and in control of your dating life
  • discover your Personal Zone of Attraction and set yourself up for success from the beginning instead of sabotaging yourself 
  • a solid foundation for your next relationship so that you can start over from a position of strength
  • clarity around what you ultimately want and need to feel loved, appreciated and cherished in a way that is meaningful to you.
  • rediscover your radiant self, know who you are and your vision for love so that you can attract the right kind of people for you
  • release and let go of the past so that you can help and open your heart to the possibly of finding love in a way you may never have known before
  • uncover and break through the biggest blocks and barriers that are stopping you from meeting and attracting the right people for you so that you don’t waste time investing in dating and getting stuck in a new relationship that isn’t right for you
  • discover the habits, patterns and behaviours that didn’t work in your previous relationship or marriage so that you don’t repeat the same mistakes in the future
  • get crystal clear on your own boundaries and deal breakers going forward so that you establish healthy dating and relationship patterns from the start
  • transform your self care and relationship with yourself as the starting point of every other relationship in your life

Here’s how you can work with me

Virtual Private VIP Day


By Application Only

An exclusive 1 day event designed to get you started on your Ready for Love Journey. 

Investment: £997 

(50% deposit, balance 24 hours before session)


Private Coaching And Mentoring


By Application Only 

6 Months of comprehensive, tailor-made support to get you over past hurt, move on and ready for the fun and exciting love life you deserve.

Investment: £4497



The ultimate preparation to date confidently and meet the right person for you second time round. 

The exclusive Ready for Love Blueprint is a tailor-made, step-by-step programme that supports you in moving on from the past, rediscover your radiant self, create your personalised plan to date confidently, know exactly what to do to meet the right people for you –  and find love again.

Together we will create special practices for your personal breakthroughs, tailored to your personal circumstances and lifestyle.

  • This is a 6 month process and is tailored and paced according to your progress and individual circumstances
  • 3 x 60min Coaching sessions per month
  • Dedicated assignments throughout the programme (worksheets, assessments, checklists, recommended reading etc)
  • Ongoing email support between sessions
  • Quick SOS calls when you need a little TLC before of after a date
  • An initial 90min “Ready for Love” kick-off session that will give you deep insight into your personal relationship readiness
  • A tailor-made plan that fits with your personality, your lifestyle and your ultimate relationship goals. This will keep you on track so you know exactly what your next steps are as you continue your journey.
  • personal introductions, special offers and access to my little black book of elite matchmakers, stylists and make-up artists, online dating profile photographers and wellbeing experts 
  • online dating profile setup or makeover and selecting the right dating sites and/or apps suited to your personality, lifestyle and what you’re looking for

What Clients Say

If it hadn’t been for Ané, I’m not sure I would’ve so easily recognised ‘the one’ when I did eventually meet him, but when I did little snippets of her wisdom kept coming back to me, reassuring me that this was the real thing.

There is something so special about those single years post divorce.  My head was telling me to rush into a new relationship (anything to stave off the loneliness) but in my guts I knew I had to be alone for a time to learn, process and rediscover. Ané was a guiding light during those times and a constant beacon of hope reassuring me that love would come when the time was right.  And it did!  I am truly, deeply, madly in love with my soul-mate; a man who celebrates me and my femininity for all it is.  Was he worth the wait?  Absolutely!  I would wait another five years if I had to because when you have the real thing you realise that everything else was just a pretence…
Ané helped me to be really clear about what was real and what was pretence.  She knows because she’s been there, which makes her service so incredibly valuable.”
(J. Bath)

Like many contemplative people, I was of the view that I had done the necessary soul-searching and knew what I wanted in a partner. It was just that I ‘couldn’t find him’.

Thanks to Ané’s calming voice, attentive listening, and thought-provoking questions, I soon came to realise that the ‘specification’ of the person that I was ‘looking for’, was not consistent with the one that I would need in order to feel the way I want to feel in a secure and committed relationship. I also came to learn some views I had of myself that were undoubtedly holding me back.

Ané’s insights, drawing from both her personal experience and research, have been the catalyst to help me uncover and tackle these thorny issues. I will be forever grateful. ”

(MK- London)

This I know for sure – until we get to the root of what is blocking love from our lives we won’t change our experience of love.


When all is said and done the truth about finding love (again) and attracting the right person for you is not about the external tactics – the ‘rules’ or game strategies – but the inner work and shifts only you have the power to make.

This is the key to stop second guessing yourself and the worry about whether you are getting it right or wrong on the dating scene – and ultimately in finding love again.

My own divorce was the pivotal point in my life that led me to find love again in such a way I could never have imagined possible.

Today I’m happier than I’ve ever been in the best relationship of my life, living a life I love and doing the work I love with all my heart – helping women like you start over in love.

Now I know what it takes.  We can all have the relationship we dream of if we’re willing to do the work to get there.

When you decide it’s time for you to get ready to find love again, I’m here for you.



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