01 Dec How to find love again: 3 key steps to creating your ultimate life vision
Day 1: “I KNOW WHAT I WANT MY LIFE TO LOOK LIKE GOING FORWARD – I have a clear vision for my life. I can envision my perfect life in rich detail that feels strong, very real, and keeps me motivated. I know the legacy I want to create with my life”
3 Key steps to creating your ultimate life vision
1. Get crystal clear on the the legacy you want to create as an individual and in a long term, committed partnership. Knowing what you want your life to look like sets you on the right track to connect with likeminded people and connecting with somebody who supports, respects and understand your ultimate life vision – and vice versa of course.
2. Create and live your best life while you’re single. Don’t wait or put anything off just because you’re waiting for the ideal person or the ideal relationship. Rediscover forgotten dreams, ideas and passions that may have been left behind when you were in a previous relationship or marriage and do whatever you can to do what you always wanted to do if it’s still important to you. Or find new dreams and passions that are in line with where you’re at this stage in your life – and go them.
3. Create connection with those who are in alignment with you. This will exponentially increase the chances of meeting the right person for you. Take your time to take stock of where you’re up to at this stage in your life and invest in setting out your vision for your future.
Life can be unpredictable – and of course things will change over time. A new partner and relationship may open up new and wonderful experiences and avenues that you never even thought of. I’m a living example of this as it’s exactly what happened when my husband introduced me to sailing – I had no idea I would love it so much. It’s become something we both love to do together and we’re planning a lot of our future around taking time out to do something we have a shared interested in.
Having your own amazing, interesting life – whatever that means to you – is incredibly attractive and will resonate with the right person for you.