Dating Coach Ané Auret


What is a Dating and Relationship Coach?

It is not as much about finding the right person as it is about being the right person. With my help you can do both. You will hear me say this many times: Your relationship starts with you!

As a Dating and Relationship Coach I work with my clients to help them achieve their unique dating and relationship goals. There may be many common themes in love and life, but we are all on our own unique journey with our own, unique experiences, stories and views of the world – and these all affect how we ‘do’ dating and relationships. Together we uncover the things that have been holding you back and find ways of you moving forward confidently to get what you really want.

My sole focus is to support you in creating the deep, intimate and lasting relationship you want.

My Dating and Coaching Programmes are designed to provide you with the tailor-made emotional and practical support you need at every stage of your unique journey.
Through coaching you will develop a conscious and purposeful approach to your whole dating and relationship journey and build the strongest foundation you can for your next relationship.
All of this helps you to stop wasting your time on the wrong people and start attracting the right people for you – confidently and with ease.

And we have a lot of fun along the way!

How do Dating and Relationship Coaching go together?

My overall mission is for you to have the happy, healthy, strong and successful relationship you deserve and for you to be loved for who you are – not just to get a date.

If you are serious about having this type of relationship you may realise that the work we all have to do at some stage stretches beyond the often superficial dating strategies and tactics you can read pretty much anywhere.

Real change happens when you decide to invest in yourself and your relationship future. I meet you wherever you are on your personal journey – and your relationship with yourself is a fundamental part of our work together.

Your deeply held beliefs, habits, patterns and skills that are part of your dating journey sets the scene for your long term relationship or marriage. To have the relationship of your dreams takes some seriously hard work – and dating is only the beginning of that work! You will constantly be adapting as you go through your dating and relationship journey.
The stronger your foundation as a single person the more successful your dating experiences will be – and ultimately your chosen relationship.
Remember – it always starts with you. And that is always worth it.

Who do you work with?

My clients are simply amazing women. They are single, professional and powerful in their own right and they’re looking to be in a long term committed relationship or to get married.

Some call themselves ‘long term single’ – often stuck in a cycle of one-off dates or short term toxic relationships that are just plain wrong for them. Others have come out of long term relationships or a marriage and are looking to start dating again. Some have families, but many are in their later thirties or early forties and haven’t had a family yet. Some feel the pressure to do so, others have made the decision that they’re not going down the family route. Each and every one bring their own unique story, perspective and experiences and together we unpick it all until there is complete clarity and a shift in consciousness about the things that are standing in their way.

There are also some universal themes I come across in my conversations:

  • They’ve tried everything they know how but still end up back at square one
  • They attract men that are not the right fit for them
  • They often sabotage themselves or a potential relationship even if it is a good match (or especially if it’s a good match!)
  • They want to meet somebody on their level and create an emotionally mature and equal partnership with a strong and secure man
  • Pretty much everything else in their lives are going well but finding the right person for them is the missing piece
  • They’re looking for profound connection and deep intimacy – no more compromise, settling or selling themselves short
  • They’re willing to pay close attention to themselves and get to the bottom of why things have not been working out for them – but more importantly, what to do about it

If you think we’re potential match and you’re interested in finding out more about how we could work together, just drop me a line at Sometimes just this conversation in itself can create a real shift! I’d love to support you.

Why would I need a Dating Coach?

The coaching relationship is a unique and powerful one, and it really can help you find fulfillment in your life and relationships.

Life is filled with challenges to finding your highest purpose, living your truth, truly valuing yourself and making choices that are best for you. I can help you identify and live the life you really want, and to be more of the person you really are and want to be – whether you’re still single and looking or whether you’re already in a relationship.

You know that your success and quality of life is directly connected to the quality of your relationships.

Here are 12 more reasons to get your own Coach today:

  1. You’re ready to be honest with yourself and get to the bottom of why things haven’t worked out for you (yet).
  2. You’re ready to move on from the old habits and patterns that have been holding you back all this time.
  3. You want an extraordinary relationship and you’re willing to do the work to get there.
  4. You want to stop spinning your wheels and finally meet the right person for you.
  5. You’re ready to take responsibility for your results.
  6. You’re ready for more than superficial dating tips and advice.
  7. You’re ready to stop ‘waiting for love’ and start being proactive about ‘looking for love’
  8. You want to stop wasting your time on meeting unsuitable people.
  9. You want to stop getting into one-off dates, dead-end and toxic relationships.
  10. You feel you’ve done everything you can and you are open to trying new approaches and new ways of ‘doing’ dating and relationships.
  11. You’re ready to invest in yourself and your future relationship.
  12. You’re ready to rewrite your unsuccessful dating and relationship history.
Is Coaching the same as therapy or counselling?

No, coaching is not therapy or counselling.  While these are very valuable in moving you past roadblocks in life, their approaches differ in many ways.

Coaching is mainly about taking you from where you are now and moving you forward to where you want to be. It is focussed on the future – and while it acknowledges the past our time is spent on real and concrete ways to create and achieve the life and love you want.

Therapy and counselling often involves extensively examining your past to define how you got here in the first place.  There are some clients who benefit from working with both professionals concurrently.  Coaches do not diagnose or treat any mental health issues or psychiatric disorders.

Before we enter into a Coaching Agreement and working together we will both make sure that this is the right path for you and that we are a good fit.

Is Coaching confidential?

Coaching is completely confidential. I agree and comply to the Coaching Code of Ethics and only in extreme circumstances will this confidence be breached.

This includes the intent to cause harm to yourself or others or criminal acts and I may be required to do so by law. There is a Confidentiality Agreement that we both sign and adhere to.

I'm thinking of working with you, what do I do next?

Fantastic news!

The first step is for us to book a no-cost, no-strings-attached consultation session that will last about 45mins.

***You can just click HERE for access to my online diary and schedule your session there – or click on the pretty floral image below.  Both ways will take you to my diary.

It is very important that you and I both feel that we can work together – it’s important that we at least speak over the phone, or briefly meet in person before we take the next step.  This will give us a chance to talk through what you want to achieve and to establish whether I am the right person to help you get there.

We will work closely together – this is a very personal and intimate journey and it can be challenging at times. I will be with you every step of the way.

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